Does anyone know the recipe for a betty stone cake?

an old friend used to make it...but she wont give up the recipe! its my dad's favorite and im trying to make it for his birthday, and cant find the recipe anywhere! please help!Does anyone know the recipe for a betty stone cake?
Hope this is it it's not betty's cake but I think they are all close...





BROWN STONE FRONT CAKE





2 c. brown sugar


1 c. shortening


3 eggs


2 tsp. baking soda


1 tsp. cloves


1 tsp. cinnamon


1/4 tsp. nutmeg


1 c. sour milk


3 c. flour


1 c. walnuts


1 lb. raisins, cooked





Mix all ingredients together except raisins and nuts, add them last. Bake in a greased and floured bundt pan at 350 degrees for 1 hour.





ICING:





3 c. sugar


1 stick butter


1 c. milk


To prepare icing place sugar, butter, and milk in a saucepan. Bring to a rolling boil. Boil for 5 minutes, stirring constantly. To frost cake poke holes in cake with spoon, pour icing into holes and completely cover cake.